10 Life-Changing Books for Personal Growth and Spiritual Transformation

10 Life-Changing Books for Personal Growth and Spiritual Transformation

If there’s one thing I’m confident about, it’s my ability to learn new things, especially through books and audiobooks. I make it a daily habit to read or listen to material on a wide range of topics. Sometimes, I delve into subjects I’m deeply passionate about; other times, I explore viewpoints that challenge my own. Over the years, my interests have evolved significantly. In my twenties and early thirties, I focused primarily on self-development books, honing in on mental strength, resilience, and a business mindset. Recently, however, my attention has shifted towards exploring the inner and spiritual world.

Even within this recent shift, my curiosity has led me to explore various niches—finding peace, overcoming fear, meditation, hypnotherapy, mental illness, quantum physics, the power of the mind, manifestation, life after death, and more. Each topic opens up new avenues of understanding and growth, keeping my journey of learning as exciting as ever.

Since turning 35, my perspective, worldview, priorities, and even my sense of self have changed significantly. What used to be important to me—the desire to build a $100M business, having a big team, and holding powerful influence—no longer matters as much. Instead, a stronger desire for a happy, peaceful, and fulfilling life has taken center stage. While I still aspire to be wealthy and never have to worry about money, I now prioritize maintaining a balance between work and personal life and making a positive impact in the world, even if it’s small. You can read more about how I have changed throughout the years in  this series here.

Before 35, my idea of a happy family was vague; my career was my sole focus, and I would have traded anything for it. Now, approaching 40, I dream of a simpler life: a farmhouse with a big garden and a breathtaking lake view. I envision working outside under the sun, making a delicious lunch for my boyfriend and me, nurturing plants, making wine, and celebrating life every day with him.

Had you asked me before 35 if I could have imagined such a massive change, I would have said no. But after experiencing a major life event—being caught for tax evasion and undergoing 2.5 years under investigation—I had to reevaluate everything to understand deeply what truly matters. Navigating this transformation was only possible thanks to the guidance of great books I have read. The journey from where I was to where I am now feels almost mythical.

Below are the 10 books that have either shaped my life or completely transformed my perspective of the world. Each book was read at a particular stage in my life, filling the gaps in my soul and satisfying my quest for knowledge at that time. Perhaps, I’m a bit biased in my choices because I have read hundreds of business books. However, at this stage in life, I seem to favor books focused on self-discovery and the inner world rather than hardcore finance and investing.

I still read and listen to finance and investing podcasts daily, but they no longer have the life-changing impact they once did. This might be because I’ve read so many in the past that their lessons start to blend together, or perhaps because having achieved my own success, I’m less hungry and curious than I once was.


How to Win Friends and Influence Peopleby Dale Carnegie

Among all the business books I’ve read, this one remains my absolute favorite. Though it’s been about a decade since I last read it and my recall of every chapter has faded, it’s definitely time for a revisit. This book offers timeless, practical advice on building both professional and personal relationships, and it was a guiding light during the formative years of my business journey. I still remember how Carnegie’s simple advice helped me transform seemingly impossible deals into successes and build a cohesive, motivated team, even though I had limited experience in business and management at the time. While many of the principles—such as being an attentive listener, showing genuine interest in others, respecting differing opinions, admitting mistakes swiftly, encouraging dialogue, empathizing with others’ viewpoints, and offering sincere praise for even minor improvements—may not be groundbreaking or revolutionary, they can have a profound impact when applied effectively.

Here are 10 quotes I really love from How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie:

  1. It isn’t what you have or who you are or where you are or what you are doing that makes you happy or unhappy. It is what you think about it.
  2. Don’t be afraid of enemies who attack you. Be afraid of the friends who flatter you.
  3. You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you.
  4. Any fool can criticize, complain, and condemn—and most fools do. But it takes character and self-control to be understanding and forgiving.
  5. When dealing with people, remember you are not dealing with creatures of logic, but with creatures bristling with prejudice and motivated by pride and vanity.
  6. Everybody in the world is seeking happiness—and there is one sure way to find it. That is by controlling your thoughts. Happiness doesn’t depend on outward conditions. It depends on inner conditions.
  7. Talk to someone about themselves and they’ll listen for hours
  8. Actions speak louder than words, and a smile says, ‘I like you. You make me happy. I am glad to see you.’ That is why dogs make such a hit. They are so glad to see us that they almost jump out of their skins. So, naturally, we are glad to see them.
  9. To be interesting, be interested.
  10. Criticism is dangerous, because it wounds a person’s precious pride, hurts his sense of importance, and arouses resentment

The Power of Now” by Eckhart Tolle

I received The Power of Now as a gift from a former boss during my internship when I was 20. Over the next decade, I attempted to engage with it several times but always found myself putting it down within the first few pages. My focus was then consumed by social activities, career ambitions, and financial pursuits, leaving little room for inner reflection. It wasn’t until I was 32, on a business trip to Kuala Lumpur, that I revisited the book under unexpected circumstances. With the in-flight entertainment system at my seat malfunctioning, the book became my only option for distraction. In the quiet darkness of the airplane, I experienced a profound moment of clarity as I observed my thoughts—shifting from past memories to future anxieties and back to the present—almost as if I were an impartial observer. For the first time, I recognized that my thoughts were separate from my true self. This realization was a pivotal moment that fundamentally transformed my perspective on inner peace and self-awareness.

Here are 10 quotes I really love from The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle:

  1. Any action is often better than no action, especially if you have been stuck in an unhappy situation for a long time. If it is a mistake, at least you learn something, in which case it’s no longer a mistake. If you remain stuck, you learn nothing.
  2. Love is not selective, just as the light of the sun is not selective. It does not make one person special. It is not exclusive. Exclusivity is not the love of God but the “love” of ego. However, the intensity with which true love is felt can vary. There may be one person who reflects your love back to you more clearly and more intensely than others, and if that person feels the same toward you, it can be said that you are in a love relationship with him or her. The bond that connects you with that person is the same bond that connects you with the person sitting next to you on a bus, or with a bird, a tree, a flower. Only the degree of intensity with which it is felt differs.
  3. If you get the inside right, the outside will fall into place. Primary reality is within; secondary reality without.
  4. If your mind carries a heavy burden of past, you will experience more of the same. The past perpetuates itself through lack of presence. The quality of your consciousness at this moment is what shapes the future
  5. Nothing has happened in the past; it happened in the Now. Nothing will ever happen in the future; it will happen in the Now.
  6. Where there is anger there is always pain underneath.
  7. Power over others is weakness disguised as strength. True power is within, and it is available to you now.
  8. Nothing out there will ever satisfy you except temporarily and superficially, but you may need to experience many disillusionments before you realize that truth
  9. The primary cause of unhappiness is never the situation but your thoughts about it.
  10. The most common ego identifications have to do with possessions, the work you do, social status and recognition, knowledge and education, physical appearance, special abilities, relationships, personal and family history, belief systems, and often also political, nationalistic, racial, religious, and other collective identifications. None of these is you.

Never Split the Difference” by Chris Voss

To be honest, I never saw myself as a skilled negotiator. Although I had picked up some tricks from psychology books and used them to influence decisions by understanding others’ thought processes, I lacked a solid foundation in negotiation skills. Never Split the Difference was a game changer for me and remains the best negotiation book I’ve read. Written by a former FBI negotiator, it offers techniques developed through high-stakes negotiations. Voss introduces strategies like tactical empathy, mirroring, and labeling to gain leverage and achieve better outcomes, emphasizing the importance of understanding the other party’s emotions and motivations. These methods have proven invaluable in both professional and personal negotiations. While I can’t say I’ve mastered negotiation or remembered every technique, this book is one I plan to revisit regularly for its profound insights.

Here are 10 quotes I really love from Never Split the Difference by Chris Voss:

  1. He who has learned to disagree without being disagreeable has discovered the most valuable secret of negotiation
  2. Negotiate in their world. Persuasion is not about how bright or smooth or forceful you are. It’s about the other party convincing themselves that the solution you want is their own idea. So don’t beat them with logic or brute force. Ask them questions that open paths to your goals. It’s not about you
  3. If you approach a negotiation thinking the other guy thinks like you, you are wrong. That’s not empathy, that’s a projection.
  4. The beauty of empathy is that it doesn’t demand that you agree with the other person’s ideas
  5. Hope is not a strategy
  6. Negotiation is not an act of battle; it’s a process of discovery. The goal is to uncover as much information as possible.
  7. By repeating back what people say, you trigger this mirroring instinct and your counterpart will inevitably elaborate on what was just said and sustain the process of connecting.
  8. Contrary to popular opinion, listening is not a passive activity. It is the most active thing you can do
  9. The person across the table is never the problem. The unsolved issue is. So focus on the issue. This is one of the most basic tactics for avoiding emotional escalations
  10. Playing dumb is a valid negotiating technique

Peace Is Every Step” by Thich Nhat Hanh

Thich Nhat Hanh’s books are known for their gentle, accessible wisdom, and Peace Is Every Step is no exception. This was the first of his works I read, and it left a profound impact on me. The book beautifully illustrates that happiness and peace do not need to be found in distant travels, luxury experiences, or material success, but are present right here and now. It teaches that joy can be discovered in the simplest moments—a walk in nature, a smile from a child, or a loving touch. 

The book’s content is soothing and resonates deeply with my soul, like a breath of fresh air that embraces and nurtures me. It’s an easy read, yet its teachings are deeply impactful, offering endless love and support through its pages. This gentle wisdom serves as a constant reminder that peace and joy are always accessible if we remain present and aware.

Here are 10 memorable quotes from Peace Is Every Step by Thich Nhat Hanh:

  1. Walk as if you are kissing the Earth with your feet.
  2. Hope is important because it can make the present moment less difficult to bear. If we believe that tomorrow will be better, we can bear a hardship today
  3. The present moment is filled with joy and happiness. If you are attentive, you will see it.
  4. We really have to understand the person we want to love. If our love is only a will to possess, it is not love. If we only think of ourselves, if we know only our own needs and ignore the needs of the other person, we cannot love. We must look deeply in order to see and understand the needs, aspirations, and suffering of the person we love. This is the ground of real love. You cannot resist loving another person when you really understand him or her.
  5. Peace is present right here and now, in ourselves and in everything we do and see. Every breath we take, every step we take, can be filled with peace, joy, and serenity. The question is whether or not we are in touch with it. We need only to be awake, alive in the present moment.
  6. We are very good at preparing to live, but not very good at living. We know how to sacrifice ten years for a diploma, and we are willing to work very hard to get a job, a car, a house, and so on. But we have difficulty remembering that we are alive in the present moment, the only moment there is for us to be alive.
  7. Every thought you produce, anything you say, any action you do, it bears your signature.
  8. We will not just say, “I love him very much,” but instead, “I will do something so that he will suffer less.” The mind of compassion is truly present when it is effective in removing another person’s suffering.
  9. Nature is our mother.  Because we live cut off from her, we get sick.  Some of us live in boxes called apartments, very high above the ground.  Around us are only cement, metal, and hard things like that.  Our fingers do not have a chance to touch the soil; we don’t grow lettuce anymore.  Because we are so distant from our Mother Earth, we become sick.  That is why we need to go out from time to time and be in nature.  It is very important
  10. Even if we have a lot of money in the bank, we can die very easily from our suffering.  So, investing in a friend, making a friend into a real friend, building a community of friends, is a much better source of security.  We will have someone to lean on, to come to, during our difficult moments.

Life and Teaching of the Masters of the Far East” by Baird T. Spalding

This book greatly impacted me in ways I could never have anticipated. I was initially drawn in by just a few pages, and soon found myself engrossed, spending hours each evening delving into the text until I had read it cover to cover.

The book chronicles an expedition undertaken in 1894 by Baird T. Spalding and a group of esteemed Western scientists who journeyed to the Far East with the aim of disproving spiritual beliefs as mere superstitions and proving that only scientifically verifiable phenomena are real. 

However, their experiences challenged their initial skepticism and revealed spiritual truths and practices that far exceeded their expectations.

Their findings opened a window into a realm beyond the limitations of conventional science, demonstrating that the spiritual world and its mysteries can exist outside the scope of empirical evidence. This book encourages readers to expand their understanding and remain open to the possibility of realities that lie beyond the visible and measurable, inspiring a broader perspective on existence and knowledge.

Here are 10 impactful quotes and highlights from Life and Teaching of the Masters of the Far East by Baird T. Spalding:

  1. The greatest power is to be able to have nothing and still be content.
  2. Mastery comes when we realize that the source of all power is within us, not outside.
  3. In the silence of the mind, the truth of our existence is revealed.
  4. By living in harmony with the divine laws, one achieves a state of peace and enlightenment.
  5. The true path to wisdom is not through external accomplishments but through inner realization.
  6. When we embrace the present moment fully, we align ourselves with the infinite flow of life
  7. The true self is beyond the physical body and the mind’s fluctuations; it is eternal and unchanging.
  8. The Masters teach that the key to spiritual growth is to live in accordance with universal principles.
  9. True power is not in controlling others but in mastering oneself.
  10. Inner peace comes from aligning oneself with the rhythm of the universe.

The Surrender Experiment” by Michael A. Singer

The Surrender Experiment is a compelling account of Michael A. Singer’s personal journey of letting go and allowing life to unfold as it will. In this memoir, Singer recounts his decision to relinquish control and fully embrace whatever life presents, based on his earlier experiences with meditation and spiritual insight. The book chronicles how this commitment to surrender led him through unexpected and transformative experiences, including significant professional and personal milestones.

You can read more about my personal experience and insights from this book in another blog here.

Here are 10 memorable quotes from The Surrender Experiment by Michael A. Singer:

  1. My formula for success was very simple: Do whatever is put in front of you with all your heart and soul without regard for personal results. Do the work as though it were given to you by the universe itself – because it was.
  2. Could it really be so hard to just let it rain when it rains and be sunny when it’s sunny without complaining about it? Apparently, the mind can’t do it: Why did it have to rain today? It always rains when I don’t want it to. It had all week to rain; it’s just not fair.
  3. Life rarely unfolds exactly as we want it to. And if we stop and think about it, that makes perfect sense.
  4. What would happen if we respected the flow of life and used our free will to participate in what’s unfolding, instead of fighting it?
  5. Since most of us only feel good when things are going our way, we are constantly attempting to control everything in our lives. The question is, does it have to be this way? There is so much evidence that life does quite well on its own.
  6. Let go of the need to control, and let life guide you.
  7. Surrender opens the door to infinite possibilities.
  8. Follow the flow of life’s energy and watch miracles unfold.
  9. Sometimes what we resist the most is exactly what we need to surrender to
  10. Allow life to surprise you, and trust that everything is happening for your highest good.


The Untethered Soul” by Michael A. Singer

Michael A. Singer quickly became my favorite author last year, and it’s no surprise that two of his three published books climbed into my top ten of all time. His insights inspired me so much that I consumed myself in nearly all his podcasts and talks on YouTube. “The Surrender Experiment” and “The Untethered Soul” served as a guiding light during my extraordinary spiritual awakening—a journey I never imagined.

Singer’s books came to me at a time last year when my soul was most receptive, and I absorbed their teachings as eagerly as a desert welcomes rain. They ignited my deep interest in meditation and inner exploration. 

While “The Untethered Soul” and “The Power of Now” by Eckhart Tolleexplore similar themes, they were read six years apart, a period during which my interest in meditation and spiritual growth shifted from non-existent to profound.

The Untethered Soul guides me in connecting with my inner world, empowering me to liberate myself from emotional burdens and suffering. Where The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle first introduced me to observing my thoughts, The Untethered Soul elevated this practice to new heights. It not only deepened my ability to observe my thoughts but also guided me in letting go of the deep-seated emotions and traumas that had weighed me down for years.

Here are ten memorable quotes from The Untethered Soul by Michael A. Singer:

  1. There is nothing more important to true growth than realizing that you are not the voice of the mind – you are the one who hears it.
  2. If you want to be happy, you have to let go of the part of you that wants to create melodrama. This is the part that thinks there’s a reason not to be happy. You have to transcend the personal, and as you do, you will naturally awaken to the higher aspects of your being. In the end, enjoying life’s experiences is the only rational thing to do. You’re sitting on a planet spinning around in the middle of absolutely nowhere. Go ahead, take a look at reality. You’re floating in empty space in a universe that goes on forever. If you have to be here, at least be happy and enjoy the experience. You’re going to die anyway. Things are going to happen anyway. Why shouldn’t you be happy? You gain nothing by being bothered by life’s events. It doesn’t change the world; you just suffer. There’s always going to be something that can bother you, if you let it.
  3. Only you can take inner freedom away from yourself, or give it to yourself. Nobody else can.
  4. When a problem is disturbing you, don’t ask, “What should I do about it?” Ask, “What part of me is being disturbed by this?
  5. Do not let anything that happens in life be important enough that you’re willing to close your heart over it
  6. Eventually, you will see that the real cause of the problem is not life itself. It’s the commotion the mind makes about life that really causes the problems.
  7. If you’re willing to be objective and watch all your thoughts, you will see that the vast majority of them have no relevance. They have no effect on anything or anybody, except you.
  8. The most important thing you can do in your life is to learn how to sit quietly with yourself.
  9. The mind is a wonderful servant but a terrible master
  10. The key to happiness is not in having more but in letting go of what you already have.

Many Lives, Many Masters” & “Only Love is Real” —Brian Weiss by Brian Weiss

I first encountered Only Love Is Real by Brian Weiss during a particularly challenging time in my life in the summer of 2022. I vividly remember the five-hour train ride from Tbilisi to Batumi, Georgia, where I was so captivated by the book that I read it cover to cover without a single distraction.

The book provided me with the comfort and answers I desperately needed, planting a seed that gently steered my life in a new direction. As I turned the last page, tears filled my eyes, and I realized I couldn’t recall the last time a book had moved me so profoundly. It touched the deepest corners of my heart, offering support and insights that I had never found elsewhere.

For weeks afterward, my heart and soul felt like they were floating on cloud nine. I couldn’t stop thinking about the book, contemplating the cycle of life, the nature of the soul, the spiritual world, and the vast universe. This profound experience with Only Love Is Real not only provided me with immediate solace but also opened my mind to new perspectives. It led me to delve deeper into Brian Weiss’s other works, such as Many Lives, Many Masters, further enriching my understanding and appreciation of the spiritual dimensions of existence.

Both of his works opened me to the profound and previously unimaginable world of reincarnation, a concept I had never fully embraced until my own spiritual awakening.

In his books, Weiss chronicles his experiences as a psychiatrist who stumbled upon past-life regression therapy. The narrative focuses on his work with patients who begin recalling past lives, leading to great insights about reincarnation and the soul’s journey. Weiss skillfully intertwines clinical observations with spiritual teachings, offering a compelling perspective on life, healing, and the afterlife.

I believe these two books, along with Journey of Souls by Michael Newton (below), are especially soul-soothing for anyone struggling to move on after losing a loved one, facing unanswered questions, or enduring a life full of adversities with no solace or guidance in sight. These books can offer profound answers and a beacon of hope, providing a light at the end of the tunnel.

Here are ten quotes from Only Love Is Real & Many Lives, Many Masters by Brian Weiss that I really love:

  1. There is someone special for everyone. Often there are two or three or even four. They come from different generations. They travel across oceans of time and the depths of heavenly dimensions to be with you again. They come from the other side, from heaven. They look different, but your heart knows them. You are bonded together throughout eternity, and you will never be alone.”
  2. Soul recognition may be immediate. A sudden feeling of familiarity, of knowing this new person at depths far beyond what the conscious mind could know. At depths usually reserved for the most intimate family members. Or even deeper than that. Intuitively knowing what to say, how they will react. A feeling of safety and trust far greater than could be earned in only one day or one week or one month.
  3. Patience and timing … everything comes when it must come. A life cannot be rushed, and cannot be worked on a schedule as so many people want it to be. We must accept what comes to us at a given time, and not ask for more.
  4. We have debts that must be paid. If we have not paid out these debts, then we must take them into another life … in order that they must be worked through
  5. Inner peace is impossible without patience. Wisdom requires patience. Spiritual growth implies the mastery of patience. Patience allows the unfolding of destiny to proceed at its won unhurried pace.
  6. A life with difficult relationships, filled with obstacles and losses, presents the most opportunity for the soul’s growth.
  7. Every individual soul chooses the significant people in that life. Destiny will place you in a particular circumstance; it will dictate that you will encounter a particular person, at a certain time, and place.
  8. I know that there is a reason for everything. Perhaps at the moment that an event occurs, we have neither the insight nor the foresight to comprehend the reason, but with time and patience it will come to light.
  9. Come from the heart, the true heart, not the head. When in doubt, choose the heart. This does not mean to deny your own experiences and that which you have empirically learned through the years. It means to trust yourself to integrate intuition and experience. There is a balance, a harmony to be nurtured, between the head and the heart. When the intuition rings clear and true, loving impulses are favored.
  10. Intuition is our soul’s guidance, always leading us in the right direction.

Journey of Souls” by Michael Newton

After immersing myself in Brian Weiss’s Many Lives, Many Masters and Only Love Is Real, my quest for a deeper understanding of the afterlife and reincarnation led me to Michael Newton’s Journey of Souls. This book provided the revelatory insights I was seeking, offering a new dimension to my exploration of the spiritual realm.

Journey of Souls goes deep into the concept of life between lives, drawing from Newton’s extensive work with clients undergoing past-life regression. Through detailed accounts from his sessions, Newton reveals what occurs after death, including the processes of spiritual growth, soul development, and the lessons learned between earthly lives. The book illuminates the continuity of the soul’s journey, presenting a compelling perspective on reincarnation and the purpose of our existence. Reading it was a transformative experience that deepened my understanding and left me with a sense of awe and clarity about the spiritual dimensions of life.

Here are ten quotes from Journey of Souls by Michael Newton that I really love:

  1. Love is the most powerful force in the universe, and it is what ultimately drives our souls.
  2. Every soul has a unique purpose and mission in this lifetime.
  3. Death is not an end, but a transition into a different vibrational state.
  4. Your soul is eternal and will continue to exist long after your physical body has passed.
  5. There are no coincidences or accidents in life. Everything happens for a reason.
  6. Trust in the divine timing of your life. Everything unfolds at the perfect moment.
  7. Our souls have lived many lifetimes in order to learn and evolve.
  8. Meditation is a powerful tool for connecting with your soul’s wisdom and guidance.
  9. The universe operates with a sense of divine order and justice, ensuring that every soul’s journey is meaningful.
  10. Your soul has many spirit guides and helpers that support you throughout your journey.

Taoism” and the “Tao Te Ching” by Laozi

Laozi, also known as Lao Tzu, is a legendary figure in Chinese philosophy and the reputed author of the Tao Te Ching, a foundational text of Taoism. His name translates to “Old Master,” reflecting his status as a wise and ancient sage.

Laozi is believed to have lived during the 6th century BCE, although historical details about his life remain sparse and often mixed with myth. According to tradition, he worked as a record-keeper in the Zhou Dynasty court. Disillusioned with the moral decay and political turmoil of his time, Laozi decided to leave society in search of solitude.

Before departing, Laozi was urged by a gatekeeper to write down his wisdom. The result was the Tao Te Ching, a collection of 81 brief chapters filled with profound teachings on the Tao (the Way), the natural order of the universe, and principles of living in harmony with it.

Laozi’s philosophy emphasizes simplicity, humility, and the practice of wu wei (non-action), advocating for a life that flows in accordance with the natural world. His teachings have had a lasting impact on Chinese culture and have influenced various schools of thought and spiritual traditions worldwide

If I were to choose a single guiding principle for my life, it would undeniably be the Tao. Laozi’s philosophy and teachings resonate deeply with me, making me feel as though I have found a place where I truly belong. I’m pretty sure that you’ve likely encountered some of his ideas, especially the concept of Yin and Yang—yes, that’s him and one of his profound teachings.

Whenever I face challenges and need encouragement, I often turn to inspiring quotes. Growing up, I read many quotes from Laozi, although I didn’t fully understand or appreciate his wisdom at the time. Revisiting his teachings in recent years, after experiencing many of life’s ups and downs, I find myself resonating more deeply with his insights. Laozi’s wisdom now provides me with profound guidance and comfort, offering a sense of clarity and purpose that I hadn’t grasped before.

Here are the summaries of Laozi’s main teachings:

  1. Living in Harmony with Nature: Taoism teaches that we should align ourselves with the natural world and its rhythms. This means going with the flow of life rather than fighting against it.
  2. Wu Wei (Non-Action): Wu Wei is the concept of effortless action or non-action. It doesn’t mean doing nothing but rather acting in a way that is in harmony with the Tao. This means taking action without force, struggle, or excessive effort.
  3. Simplicity and Humility: Taoism values simplicity and humility. It encourages people to live simply, avoid unnecessary desires, and be humble in their actions and attitudes.
  4. Yin and Yang: Taoism teaches the importance of balance and harmony between opposites, represented by the concepts of Yin and Yang. Yin is associated with qualities like darkness, femininity, and passivity, while Yang is associated with light, masculinity, and activity. Both are necessary and interconnected.
  5. Compassion, Frugality, and Humility: These are often called the “Three Treasures” of Taoism. They emphasize kindness towards others, moderation in one’s desires and lifestyle, and a humble approach to life.
  6. Meditation and Mindfulness: Taoist practices often include meditation and mindfulness to cultivate inner peace, self-awareness, and a deeper connection with the Tao.
  7. Respect for Life: Taoism promotes respect for all forms of life and emphasizes living in a way that causes minimal harm to the natural world and other beings.

Here are ten quotes from Taoism and the Tao Te Ching by Laozi that I really love:

  1. The giant tree grew from a tiny sprout. The journey of a thousand miles. Starts from right under your feet.
  2. He who knows that enough is enough will always have enough.
  3. Life is a series of natural and spontaneous changes. Don’t resist them – that only creates sorrow. Let reality be reality. Let things flow naturally forward in whatever way they like.
  4. Care about what other people think and you will always be their prisoner
  5. Truthful words are not beautiful; beautiful words are not truthful. Good words are not persuasive; persuasive words are not good.
  6. Simplicity, patience, compassion. These three are your greatest treasures. Simple in actions and thoughts, you return to the source of being. Patient with both friends and enemies, you accord with the way things are. Compassionate toward yourself, you reconcile all beings in the world.
  7. Knowing others is intelligence; knowing yourself is true wisdom. Mastering others is strength; mastering yourself is true power.
  8. Be careful what you water your dreams with. Water them with worry and fear and you will produce weeds that choke the life from your dream. Water them with optimism and solutions and you will cultivate success. Always be on the lookout for ways to turn a problem into an opportunity for success. Always be on the lookout for ways to nurture your dream.
  9. Do you have the patience to wait until your mud settles and the water is clear?
  10. He who knows does not speak. He who speaks does not know.

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  1. Dear Moon, thanks for sharing this post on my request. And I know you make it special for me on my birthday. We need to see each other much more. In-person. Love you Moon.
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